These are often "shock” reactions. Our bodies and sometimes our minds are no longer in the present, in our adult functioning, they have become tiny war veterans who are back in the original trenches of despair and powerlessness. Our brain calls up the experiences and tells us it is overwhelming to the system and there is no way to cope.
Trauma is stored in non-ordinary memory, emerging only in these frightening, flashback type experiences where it is difficult and sometimes impossible to remember that “that was then and this is now.” Normal access to the tools of coping, processing, and mastery remain unavailable.
There are now simple, powerful tools to treat the shock and trauma in the nervous system, allowing our adult functioning to come “back online”